Hi Guys passing through my Blog to say Yo Sonnn! and of coarse share what touches my heart.. so lets go....
Yeah man...I've been there done that... the separation, and big D word thingy. I must say that when this happens to anyone, it's a life changing experience to say the least. I know men go through emotionally as much as women; However I can only talk about my over emotional woman's perspectives. Its an emotional rollercoaster! However, we get through it and try our best to keep pushing and move on... Hey all I can say... is to stay positive and keep friends and family opinions to a minimum. Do what is best for YOU. Put on some big girl panties.. and move on. Its difficult but 100% possible.
I came across this list of things people go through after a divorce or breakup.. and I must say that I have done several on this list. Its great rediscovering myself, getting to know myself over again... An Awesome new fucking ME! I think this list is comical. Gotta laugh at myself sometimes when reading this list.
Take a look and feel free to share with me.
How about any of you? Have you experienced any of the following?
Let me know.. all 4 of you.. :-)
1. Totally fallen apart.
2. Completely pulled myself back together again.
3. Repeated 1 and 2 several times.
4. Upped the meds.
5. Stopped caring what he thinks of me.
6. Stopped caring what most people think of me.
7. Started having sex again.
8. Really enjoyed it for the first time.
9. Traveled alone.
10. Traveled alone with my kids.
11. Confidently started saying "table for one" without being apologetic.
12. Decided that "with his new wife" was my go to answer to "Where's your husband?"
13. Laughed at my level of happiness.
14. Cried at my level of sadness.
15. Asked for help.
16. Received it.
17. Admitted defeat.
18. Claimed victory.
19. Lowered all my bills.
20. Found my own place to live.
21. Negotiated my own lease.
22. Got my own credit card in my name.
23. Got my old name back.
24. Checked off "Head of Household" on more than one form.
25. Went back to work.
26. Went back to school.
27. Went back to bed.
28. Powered through.
29. Curled up in the fetal position.
30. Cried openly.
31. Cried alone.
32. Cried with my children.
33. Wiped their tears.
34. Stopped thinking about what should have been.
35. Started working on what could be.
36. Counted my blessings.
37. Been pissed off at what sometimes seems my curse.
38. Started thinking for myself.
39. Dyed my hair, at various times, purple, green and blue.
40. Considered a tattoo or piercing.
41. Decided that "Fuck yes!" is my motto.
42. Told him to fuck off.
43. Rebuilt.
44. Renewed.
45. Rethought relationships.
46. Asked Spirit for help.
47. Stopped getting Brazilian waxes.
48. Stopped looking for answers.
49. Started moving forward.
50. Genuinely began looking forward to the future.
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Jackie
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